I know you are probably wondering what I am drinking, but the two have beautiful relationship on our farm. We are usually offering predictions for the first day of wheat harvest beginning in early June and don’t start cutting until the end of the month. If we are lucky we are finished in time to enjoy the Fourth of July. The black berries begin to flower about the same time we are making our first predictions and usually have ripened and run their course by the end of harvest. This holds true not only for the berries we raise commercially but also the berries we find in the wild. Every year wheat harvest may be off by a week or more one way or the other and every year the blackberries seem to know.
This year is no exception and it is one worth pausing for, you see it is May 13 and we have been offering wheat harvest predictions for nearly three weeks and my bushes are loaded with flowers and green berries. Today I noticed some of them are slightly red. I will be picking blackberries in two weeks. The fields of wheat have been beautiful seas of green and last night on my way to my pasture picnic, I noticed it is starting to turn a light golden color. I predict we will start harvest on or before June 1 (almost an entire month early). Even this year the wheat and blackberries have synchronized their internal clocks.
Blackberry cobbler is heavenly and my reasoning is because they are so closely connected and to me this relationship is the story of hubby and me. Other than a short stint in college, Tom has lived his entire life on this farm. He is a true country boy in every way. Tom farms conventionally. He is the type of farmer too many try to cast in an ugly light because he has worked hard and figured out how make farming his career. He raises cattle and corn, wheat and soy beans. He is an honest man and if you were ever stranded in a dark alley late at night he is the guy you hope will come by. He has a gentle smile and a voice that always manages to calm my inner worries. He knows who he his only want is for a happy and healthy family. It is very easy to please him.
I am a city gal and as a young child and again later in my early adult years I moved a lot. My dad hit the bricks when I was young and I was in my teens before there was an adult man in my life who treated me as a daughter. That gap created an insecure person. I always assume that there is something about me that is repulsive to the world. I have always had major trust issues with all people, but men especially. I know at times I am a difficult person to want to love, but Tom makes it look easy. For that I am grateful. I used to live in an urban/ suburban area and enjoyed a career and a life that did not involve dirt, cows, or the late night four-legged visitor. I enjoyed the frequent purchase of new clothes and new shoes and my idea of farming was 5 tomato plants and a honeysuckle bush. Since moving to Kansas I have tried to be a farmer. I love playing in the dirt but must confess I don’t always know what I am doing. Tom is the one who helps me figure things out and at times does the work I am physically unable to do. He makes it look easy.
At first glance you could assume that Tom and I could not possibly have any common ground and yet the only thing that has made since in my life since we first met was making sure I am next to him. There has been a connectedness between us that is hard to put into words, but somehow belongs together. We are wheat and blackberries. For that I am grateful.
Today I cleaned all bedding plants from my tunnel and I hope within the next few weeks most will find new homes. If not, they will end up in my compost pile. Today we put down mulch eight new rows and tomorrow I will begin planting… bell peppers, chili peppers, eggplant, artichokes, Asian cucumbers, okra, cabbage, and lettuce. Tom also planted a few rows of cannellini beans. Wednesday is t-ball practice for Livie, grocery store and drop box deliveries and my farmer’s market night in Manhattan. Thursday, I will make deliveries to Beatrice and will help my girl’s preschool plant their summer garden. Friday the girls and I will go check for mulberries and hopefully will SCORE. There is lots of good stuff that will come from L’Ecuyer Gardens. Check back with us to find out what type of goodness is waiting for you.v