Helping hold pigs
of the reasons I started farming again was I wanted my kids to
experience the life I had as a child. I believe there are many reasons
why kids should spend time on a small farm. Heck they should visit a
giant factory farm also. Matter of fact I think everyone should visit a
factory farm. It would change the way you buy your food.
But lest I digress...
just zero in on kids for now. Children need to know where their food
comes from. They need to understand that farm animals have a noble
calling of supplying the human race with meat, eggs, dairy, and fiber.
that aside, there are so many things children can learn from farming.
Take for instance, my two boys. Early into our farming adventure I began
to share with them that not only did we supply other families with food
but they paid us to do that.
Then I showed them a batch of gilts
(young female pigs) and asked if they wanted to pick one to have babies
and they could raise them, care for them, and be responsible for them.
If did that they would get a cut of the profits when we sold them.
oldest was quick to ask "how much money?" My youngest was thrilled to
have a pig he could name and call his own. They both did pretty well at
taking responsibility according to their age and knowledge.
oldest son had figured up how much each pig might make him. After
several discussions about how I had to purchase the pig, supply the feed
and do all the marketing, we struck up a deal that I would gift them
the pig but feed would have to be paid for out of the proceeds.
gave me a great platform to show them the importance of controlling
your costs and looking for ways and methods to reduce inputs while still
producing a good, quality product.
They now had a vested
interest in working the farm and caring for animals. I had to remind
them many, many, times they would get paid for their hard work. It was
teaching them patience, delayed gratification, and responsibility. I
think these are all excellent traits kids should learn as soon as
Contrast this with many of the kids today who demand
material things and act like the world owes them. I strive to teach my
boys the world owes them nothing and will pay them only based on the
value they provide others.
I was tempted to over pay them for
their hard work or give in and front them some money when they really
wanted a new game or gadget.
But the truth is that wouldn't be
helping them, it would only make me feel better. That is until it was
time to pay them and I had to deduct the money or worse yet they didn't
have any left.
When it came time for the pigs to have piggies, my
oldest son's pig was a horrible mother and lost all her pigs in the
first twenty four hours. He was crushed. I explained to him that it
was a risk that we take as farmers and I know it stinks but that was
life...not always fair. I used it to teach him things happen in life
that we can't always control.
I made him a deal, since this was
his first time, I would trade him for another pig and he could continue
on and I would take the loss.
When it came time to sell the pigs
we sat down and had a short lesson in math and paid them both what was
due them. We also explained they needed to open a savings account and
deposit half of the money to start a savings.
They didn't care for that but agreed. We then helped them decide how the money would be spent.
then both of my boys are actively involved in the farm. Some work they
get paid for and some things are just a requirement of being part of the
We remind them no one pays us for cutting the grass
or doing laundry etc. Those are just part of life. Part of being a
family and caring for one another.
Proud of the pumpkins
a farm and spending time there gives kids all kinds of opportunities
to learn how life really is. If things don't go well you can't just
re-boot the game and start over.
On the other hand when the boys
have had friends over they are always required to help with chores.
Some of them are glad to help and others not so much.
thing I have noticed from every single boy who comes here and helps on
the farm. When we are done and I have encouraged them to do something
they might be a bit uneasy with such as wading into a pasture full of
hungry pigs and dumping feed in the feeder, they strut to the house
like they just won a medal. To quote Joel Salatin in his latest book,
THE SHEER ECSTASY OF BEING A LUNATIC FARMER, "one of the reasons our
young people have such a poor self-image is because we aren't letting
them receive adult praise for worthy work accomplished well."
guarantee you the next school day they are bragging to their buddies
that were feeding pigs on the farm and telling every other adventure
they encountered while here.
The farm is a great place for kids to learn new skills and feel like they accomplished something worthwhile.
I first started insisting the boys help on the farm it took longer to
get things done than if I just did myself. But little by little, they
began to catch on to what I call basic life skills. I see so many kids
today who don't have a clue how to do anything with their hands. They
cry and whine about having to be outside because it's hot or cold or
they are hungry.
When the boys would complain about being hungry I
told them I was hungry too but we would stop when we are at a place
that made sense to stop not because we were hungry.
with being hot or cold or whatever they were complaining about. I stress
to them stop listening to your body cry and whine and set your mind to
This past year many things "gelled" around here at
chore time. What used to take hours now takes minutes. Many things I had
to tell them over and over they do without even thinking. They chide
me for standing around when something needs done. I hear them repeat
back to me things I thought they would never learn.
They think ahead and work smart not wasting time or energy.
may be getting the idea I run a boot camp here at Spring Hill Farms.
But don't be alarmed. My boys have all the games and gadgets and time to
play and be crazy as most other kids their age.
But the older
they get the more of a blessing they become. They are generous, caring,
responsible, and have a strong work ethic for their age.
Children will be a blessing or a curse. Parents are the key ingredient in determining which they will be.
a farm, offer to help, let them get dirty. Start a small garden at
home and give your children a part to play in it. Not just the work,
but the reward as well. Use it to teach them basic life skills and
Don't make the mistake of thinking someone will
influence your kids more than you will. You hold the key to your
child's future use it while they are still young and willing. What you
teach them now will be part of their legacy, and yours.
Until next time...
Posted by David
@ 08:29 AM EST